He said the typical "I will help out more with the cleaning". He is a wonderful husband but seriously we all know how that goes. It is easier just to do it yourself. Plus his To Do list is equally as long as mine. He does everything himself. In fact he just finished (not 100% done) building his own cabinets in the garage from scratch.
We had the talk AGAIN about time management. He thinks I don't see where I waste my time and that I could use that wasted time getting my To Do list done. We have had this talk over and over again. I am a card carrying procrastinator married to the king of procrastination.
Around the same time I found out a Friend just competed in a bikini fitness competition. We haven't been in touch so I was amazed to find out what she did. She was never super heavy at 5'1" but I think she dropped maybe 30 pounds and really toned up her body. She was down to about 108 at the time of the competition. Come to find out she also wrote a blog about her journey. Point is - In her blog she mentioned how she consciously pulled back from play dates and mom's night out, one mostly because of the food and two, the time. She is a dedicated and serious person. This made me wonder about where I dedicate myself and where I need to spend my energy.
Over the next week I am going to examine where I